They Call It Papi Love (2024)

First came tales of the mythical chupacabra mysteriously gobbling its way across the Mexican border. Then the Macarena--the hoochie-coochie, pat-your-tushy dance from Spain--grabbed America. Now brace yourself for another Latin phenomenon: El Papi Chulo!

Que es?

A papi chulo, with his roller-coaster biceps, salty smile and seductive eyes, is a sizzling Latin love god. A mack daddy. A Baldwin.

He’s Antonio Banderas. Denzel Washington. Alec, Daniel, William or Stephen.

Get the picture?

Christy Haubegger does. In fact, she has several pinups of Latino lookers to prove her passion, although a papi can be a hunky hombre from any culture.

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As publisher of New York-based Latina, a bilingual quarterly for women, Haubegger offers a mix of stories, from health and beauty to managing money and love lives. But who knew the magazine’s “El Papi Chulo / Our Finest Man” column would attract so many happy papi fans in just two issues?

Haubegger says the column--a “love letter,” as she puts it, with a photo of a Latino role model who just happens to be a knockout--is a favorite of readers, who nominate guys they would like to see as future papis.

“For one page of the magazine to generate this much mail says to me that our readers see the fun in the column,” Haubegger says, adding that El Papi Chulo took shape during a brainstorming meeting with her staff. “We looked through the magazine and asked, ‘What’s missing?’ Then it dawned on us, ‘Where are the papis? Where are the guys?’ ”

As a term of endearment, “papi” means many things to many people, she says. For instance, a mother may tenderly call her child papi (my son); a daughter might proudly say her father is her papi (my daddy); a wife can label her husband her papi (my old man), or a friend can shout, “Hey, papi!” (Hey, dude).

In that context, it’s as old as the Spanish language.

But in matters of love and libido, “papi” implies much more than just sugar and spice. The expression’s sidewalk incarnation, “Ay, Papi Chulo!” which loosely translated means, “Hey, hunka-hunka burning love, I’m yours!” is making its way across the country from New York, where Latinas, particularly Puerto Ricans, have been using it forever.

Los Angeles isn’t papi exempt. In restaurants (“That waiter is a papi”) and on the beach (“Papasito!”), papi perusers are on the prowl.

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“A papi is a babe,” says Cindy Jordan, 28, who recently described a guy within eyeshot as a papi chulo to her friends. A male member of the same group who had never heard the term soon got his Papi 101 lesson.

Jordan, born in New York to Puerto Rican parents, moved to Los Angeles three years ago. If there’s one thing she knows, it’s a papi, be it a valet with a goatee, a UPS delivery man in shorts or a suit behind the wheel of a Suburban.

A papi, she says, “is very Latino-looking with dark hair, hazel eyes, tan complexion. He’s well-built but not a body-builder type. He’s not an Arnold Schwarzenegger, but he’s no Pee-Wee Herman either. He’s in between. He’s Antonio Sabato Jr.”

Jordan’s friend Ida Brienza, 30, who is Puerto Rican and Italian, says, “If we were at a club and I saw a hunk, I might go, ‘Mira [Look] Cindy, papi chulo.’ It’s just an inside joke with us girls.”

Jose Islas, the 26-year-old director of the 800-member Los Angeles Educational Assn. of Puerto Rican Roots, admits to earning a few papi points from the opposite sex.

“When a woman says to me, ‘Hey papi chulo!’ it’s a compliment,” he says. “She’s saying ‘You’re a nice-looking guy.’ Or maybe she’s complimenting the way I act, with dignity for myself and respect toward her.”

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That, Haubegger says, is what a papi chulo is all about--an aura of respect with rico suave looks--and why Latina magazine has anointed the following:

Marc Anthony, a 27-year-old salsero and recording artist from New York, appeared in the premiere issue beckoning women to join him in dance.

Diego Serrano, a 23-year-old Ecuadorean in the daytime soap “One Life to Live,” is ab fab in an unbuttoned shirt, his dark hair brushing his shoulders, in the current fall issue.

And coming in December will be 26-year-old actor Jacob Vargas, who has a starring role in the feature film “Selena” being filmed now in San Antonio. Vargas grew up in Pacoima and graduated from San Fernando High School.

These guys might not be so bold and beautiful to label themselves papi, but others aren’t shy.

Last year, New York designers Jesse Rodriguez and Jerome Darby took a cue from the female calls of “Ay Papi!” and whipped up two lines of Papi-emblazoned clothes: one for the more mature man, the other for teenage fly guys. Polo shirts, nylon Windbreakers, drawstring pants, jackets, basketball jerseys, T-shirts, tanks, boxer shorts and caps range in price $12 to $40. (The line is sold at Future Man in West Hollywood, or call [212] 741-3978 for a free catalog.)

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“The term is something I’m used to hearing here,” says Rodriguez, a Chicago-born Mexican American. “It’s a term used by lovers. Relatives use it as an endearment for a boy. And for best friends it’s like saying, ‘Hey dude, Hey papo.’

“The whole Latin culture is exploding and so much is happening on the streets,” he says, adding that one of his Papi shirts is in the spotlight, center stage, every night in the Broadway hit “Rent.” It has fueled demand for the clothes, which have also been worn by Janet Jackson and Rosie Perez, throughout the country.

“There’s a lot of things going on culturally that is Spanish, Mexican, Puerto Rican. And sensuality is definitely part of the Latin culture, part of the whole urban market and part of being a papi,” he says.

Haubegger says her goal is to continue to portray Latinos positively--papi and proud--”because if you really think about the media coverage of Latin men in society, they are usually photographed with their hands behind their backs.”

She just might launch a nationwide search for the perfect poster-boy papi, the hombre (and role model, of course) who embodies a combination of sensuality and sensitivity.

“We don’t choose a papi just because he is good-looking. We also choose him because he’s a great guy changing the image of Latin men,” she says. “We’ve gotten letters from younger women saying, ‘I want to date that man!’ But I’m also happy about the letters from older women who say, ‘I would like a son like that.’ ”

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Ay, Papi Chulo

The following is a list of Papi Chulos for the Ages, courtesy of Latina magazine.

1. Ramon Novarro (1920s matinee idol, the original Ben-Hur, the original papi.)

2. Oscar de la Hoya

3. Jimmy Smits

4. Benicio del Toro

5. Antonio Banderas

6. Jon Secada

7. Enrique Iglesias

8. Andy Garcia

9. Esai Morales

10. Desi Arnaz as Ricky Ricardo

They Call It Papi Love (2024)

FAQs

What does it mean if a Spanish girl calls you papi? ›

Papi is a colloquial term for “daddy” in Spanish, but in many Spanish-speaking cultures, particularly in the Caribbean, it is often used as a general term of affection for any man, whether it's a relative, friend, or lover. The English “baby,” used as a term of endearment for spouses and children alike, is similar.

What does it mean when a girl says Papito in a relationship? ›

That's Spanish for “l*ttle man” and in most vernacular means “hot guy” so take it as a compliment but be aware that if a Latin woman said it, she is likely just flirting. They flirt a lot especially when around other girls/women and often do not actually “mean” anything by it. Read body/facial language as well.

What does it mean when a girl calls you papacito? ›

Note the gender endings. It is usually a female speaking of a man and means handsome. It means 'handsome' in Spanish.

How to reply to a girl calling you daddy? ›

It's very unlikely that she'll have a problem picking a new nickname for you, and she'll probably understand where you're coming from if you approach the conversation politely. You might just say, “Hey, I love that you're so affectionate with me, but I'm not the biggest fan of you calling me daddy.

Does Papi mean boyfriend? ›

Papi comes from Spanish and it means daddy. It can refer to actual father or an attractive male or boyfriend.

Is papi chulo offensive? ›

Papi chulo carries a variety of slang connotations depending on the region. But generally, calling someone papi chulo is in reference to their appearance and their confidence, either with a negative (Rico Suave) or positive connotation (a hunk).

What do Latinas call their boyfriends? ›

III. Spanish Terms of Endearment for Male Lover
Spanish termEnglish Meaning/ Equivalent Term
cariñohoney
amorlove
corazónsweetheart
cielohun (sky, heaven)
20 more rows
Feb 21, 2019

What is the opposite of Papi? ›

mami. "Papi" is a noun which is often translated as "daddy", and "mami" is a noun which is often translated as "mommy".

What does aye papi mean? ›

"Ay, papi" is a Spanish phrase that is often used informally to express affection, attraction, or desire toward a man, similar to saying "Oh, daddy" or "Hey, daddy" in English.

Does Papito mean daddy? ›

"Papito" literally means "little daddy"... and is often used as a term of endearment for a special man/boy in your life.

Can you call your boyfriend Papacito? ›

Papi or Papacito and Mami or Mamacita

Although these words come from papá (dad) and mamá (mom), they are variants that are often used to nickname girlfriends and boyfriends. They are playful and give you a tropical feeling.

Is papacito a compliment? ›

Papacito and mamacita mean also a young handsome and gorgeous man or woman. It is a compliment.

What is the meaning of Papicita? ›

colloquial) (term of endearment) daddy (colloquial)

What does "ay papi" mean in slang? ›

"Ay, papi" is a Spanish phrase that is often used informally to express affection, attraction, or desire toward a man, similar to saying "Oh, daddy" or "Hey, daddy" in English.

What does the Spanish word popi mean? ›

popi [m] CL child. buttocks, butt.

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